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Reclaim · one on one program for women

Reclaim

A one on one program to take back your body, your power and your pleasure.

For women who are tired, live mostly in their head and no longer feel truly at home in their body. Over ten to twelve weeks we work together, live and one on one, on safety in your body, softness in your pelvis and finding your sensuality again.

Live in AmsterdamOne on one with me
10 to 12 weeksAt a pace we set together
10 sessionsAnd I am there in between too
€1,999Or 3 installments of €699

Does this sound like you?

From the outside you look fine. You work, you care for everyone, you are good company. And on the inside:

  • You are basically always tired. And when you finally rest, it makes you restless.
  • You live in your head and only notice your body when it hurts.
  • You are often tense, as if you are on guard all day.
  • During sex you are mostly busy with the other person. Letting yourself go is hard.
  • You feel something stuck in your belly or pelvis, but you don’t know how to reach it.
  • You have often crossed your own boundaries, or others crossed them.
  • You are strict with yourself. When something doesn’t work out, you give yourself a hard time.

Maybe your head has known for a long time that it can be different. In this program we make sure your body gets to notice it too.

Anne rests her hand on the belly of a woman lying under a blanket

The fear underneath it all

Almost every woman I spoke with said some version of the same thing:

“I do want to feel. But I am afraid that I will fall and not get back up.”

That makes complete sense. If your body once learned that feeling was not safe, it will protect you from it. Your nervous system is simply doing its job.

That is why we start gently. First you learn how to land, breathe and calm yourself down. Only when that feels good do we go further; step by step and at your pace.

Laughing women with their arms in the air at a women’s retreat

What can grow from there

  • You stand more firmly, also when things get tense.
  • You feel your boundaries and speak them, without making them smaller.
  • Your energy comes back. You no longer have to drag yourself out of bed.
  • You can enjoy again: food, touch, sex, a cheesy song in the kitchen.
  • You look at the little girl in you with softness instead of criticism.
The program

10 sessions

Every step builds on the one before. Between the intense sessions there are always softer ones, so you can integrate instead of getting flooded. We meet about once a week to once every week and a half.

  1. 190 minutes

    Intake and getting to know each other

    We talk about your story, your body, your wishes and your boundaries. I also check whether Kambo and yoni steam are safe for you. You go home with your first pelvic presence practice.

  2. 2Breath

    Breath workshop 1: Your breathing pattern

    We explore your breathing pattern and look at where your lung capacity can still grow. You learn techniques to bring your breath deep into your lower belly, which calms your nervous system, and to use your diaphragm for more stamina and energy.

  3. 3Kambo

    Kambo I: Letting go

    Making space in your pelvis. Read more below.

  4. 4Breath

    Compassionate Breathwork: Safe to Be in My Body

    From survival to safety. For when your system is always on guard: overthinking, control, tension and finding it hard to truly let go. Your critical voice can stay, but it goes from strict schoolteacher to kind aunt.

  5. 5Kambo

    Kambo II: Coming home

    Anchoring safety in your body.

  6. 6Breath

    Breath workshop 2: Energy and calm

    You learn different breathing techniques for more energy and for more calm, which are yours to use from then on.

  7. 7Breath

    Compassionate Breathwork: Safe to Speak My Truth

    From silence to saying what is there. On boundaries, pleasing, anger and your needs.

  8. 8Kambo

    Kambo III: Reclaim

    Taking back your pleasure, your voice and your zest for life.

  9. 9Breath

    Compassionate Breathwork: Safe to Receive

    From always giving to receiving. On love, support, pleasure and attention, and the beliefs that make receiving feel unsafe.

  10. 10Closing

    Yoni steam with cacao ceremony

    The closing session. You celebrate what you have let go of and found again, with cacao, herbal steam for your pelvis and time to receive. We look back at what has changed and make a plan to keep it alive at home.

Throughout the whole program: pelvic presence practices

Short daily audio practices that bring your attention, breath and love back to your pelvis. Five to ten minutes a day; about as long as you now scroll on your phone before sleep. Okay, a bit shorter.

Kambo

Three Kambo sessions, three intentions

Kambo is a powerful, cleansing medicine from the Amazon, from the giant monkey frog. In this program I place the points around your womb and pelvis, and I guide every session with breath, presence and calm. Together the three sessions form an arc: from letting go, through safety, to taking back.

Kambo I

Letting go

For everything your pelvis no longer needs to carry. Old pain, sexual imprints, every time your boundaries were crossed; by someone else or by yourself. That knot in your belly. And maybe also what was passed on to you by the women before you.

Kambo II

Coming home

After letting go there is space, and in this session we fill it with safety. Your body experiences that you can feel without going under. You notice again when you want to say no, and also when you truly mean yes.

Kambo III

Reclaim

The last Kambo is about pleasure: your sensuality, your appetite for life, your voice and your creativity. About learning to receive, instead of always giving and pleasing. And about letting yourself be seen again.

Why I started working with Kambo

During a ten day silent retreat I kept hearing a little voice: Kambo, Kambo, Kambo.

The first woman I spoke with afterwards had a retreat center in Portugal. She worked with shamans from Peru who bring Kambo, “because Kambo works on the womb”. I had only just started my own womb healing, so that was the confirmation I needed. That is why in this program I place the points around your womb and pelvis. Read the full story.

Kambo and your womb: what we know

From tradition
In the Amazon, tribes have long used Kambo for fertility and strength, among other things.
From experience
Women say that Kambo helped them with fertility problems and recurring infections. Practitioners who work around the womb also describe a calmer cycle and relief with hormonal complaints.
From the lab
Kambo contains peptides. In laboratory research, dermaseptins break down bacteria, fungi and viruses. Other peptides act on your blood vessels and your stress hormones.
Honestly
There is no research yet in women on fertility, hormones or inflammation. This is tradition and experience, not a promise, and not a replacement for your doctor.

Are you pregnant, or trying to conceive right now? Tell me in the intake. We don’t do Kambo during pregnancy.

Kambo is intense, physically too. That is why there are always softer sessions in between and I am available for integration. Kambo is not for everyone; read the contraindications here.

Safe, at your pace

Many women told me that earlier bodywork or intense breathwork left them even more unsettled. Or that after a single session they were left alone with everything that had opened up. That is why this program works differently.

  • Trauma informed

    You set the pace. “Stop” is always a complete answer.

  • Step by step

    We only go deeper when your body is ready for it.

  • No loose ends

    Every intense session is followed by integration, and I am available in between.

  • Touch only with consent

    Asked again every single time.

This program is an addition to medical or psychological care, not a replacement. Are you in treatment? The two often go together well; we talk about it in the intake.

Investment

What you get

The complete program

€1,999

Or 3 installments of €699.

The three Kambo sessions alone would cost €660 if booked separately. On top of that come the breath sessions, the yoni steam with cacao, the intake and the support in between.

Gift: you get my program Sleep like a Goddess, Rise like a Queen for free. Handy, because almost all the women I spoke with sleep badly.

Book a free discovery call

What is included

  • 10 live one on one sessions in Amsterdam
  • 3 Kambo sessions, each with its own intention
  • 2 breath workshops
  • 3 Compassionate Breathwork sessions: Safe to Be in My Body, Safe to Speak My Truth and Safe to Receive
  • 1 yoni steam with cacao ceremony as the closing session
  • Audio recordings of the pelvic presence practices to do at home
  • WhatsApp support between sessions (on working days, reply within 24 hours)
  • Free with it: my program Sleep like a Goddess, Rise like a Queen
  • One person who knows your whole process: me

Is this for you?

Yes, if you

  • have lost touch with your body and want it back
  • often feel unsafe, tense or on guard in your own body
  • are tired of being tired
  • want to find your sensuality and sexuality again; for yourself, not for someone else
  • are ready to feel, even though that is scary
  • want to give yourself a few months of time and attention

No, if you

  • are pregnant or breastfeeding; Kambo and yoni steam are not suitable then
  • are in an acute crisis; then you need other care first, and I am happy to help you find it
  • are looking for a quick fix
  • expect me to fix it for you; I guide you, but you do the work yourself

Not sure? Completely normal. Book a discovery call and we will feel together whether it fits.

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About me

I am Anne. As a child I picked up that there was something wrong with my body, and I believed that for a very long time. I lived mostly in my head and saw my body as something to hide instead of something to enjoy.

What brought me back was breath, plant medicine, movement, a lot of laughter and a great deal of softness. That is what I now share with other women.

Through Divinnerty I guide breathwork, nervous system regulation, womb work, Kambo ceremonies, cacao ceremonies and women’s retreats. I work with depth, but there is plenty of laughter with me too.

I am a certified breathwork coach and an IAKP certified Kambo practitioner. Divinnerty has been around since 2020.

Read my full story

Frequently asked questions

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Isn’t Kambo really intense?
Yes, Kambo is physically intense. You get warm, your heart beats faster and most of the time you vomit. The peak often lasts less than half an hour. I prepare you well, I am with you the whole time, and afterwards there is rest and integration. Many women feel surprisingly light and clear afterwards.
Can everyone do Kambo?
No. With pregnancy, breastfeeding, heart problems, low blood pressure, epilepsy, recent surgery, certain mental health conditions and some medication, Kambo is not safe. That is why I always do a thorough intake and screening.
Breathwork threw me off balance before. Is this different?
Yes. I work gently and in a regulating way, without forced fast breathing. You first learn how to bring yourself back to calm, before we open anything.
Do I need experience with breathwork or ceremonies?
No, you don’t. I explain everything step by step.
Do I have to undress?
You are always in charge of what you keep on. For the Kambo points around your womb only your lower belly needs to be uncovered. During the yoni steam you sit covered under a long skirt or wrap.
What if I am on my moon?
We plan the sessions together around your cycle. We don’t do the yoni steam during your period.
Where does it take place?
Live in Amsterdam, in a warm, quiet space. You receive the address after signing up.
How long does the program take?
10 to 12 weeks, at a pace we set together.
Can I pay in installments?
Yes, in 3 installments of €699.
Can I do this alongside therapy?
Often yes, and the two can strengthen each other beautifully. We talk about it in the intake.

Ready to take yourself back?

You don’t need to be sure yet that this is for you. That is what the discovery call is for.

In 30 minutes you tell me where you are, I tell you how I work, and then we look together at whether it fits. Free and without obligations.